Transform your relationships.
Most people believe their suffering is caused by other people. Their partner. Their boss. Their childhood. Lasting change begins when you learn to see yourself clearly.
Start Healing NowβUntil you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.β
I'm Jordan Marks β psychotherapist, educator, and organizational consultant. For over two decades I've helped individuals, couples, executives, and teams uncover the unconscious patterns that shape their lives and relationships.
My work combines psychotherapy, body awareness, philosophy, experiential learning, mindfulness, and deep inquiry to help people develop a level of self-awareness that fundamentally changes how they relate to themselves and others. The goal is not simply to manage pain. The goal is to become more alive.
Relationship Mastery
A cohort of 24, ninety minutes a week on Zoom. 8 themed weeks, each with practice and written homework.
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Short teachings, live demonstrations and cohort Q&A on triggers, repair, desire and surrender.
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Essays from the practice β what a trigger actually is, why repair is a skill, and how control quietly replaces love.
Enter βThe relationship you have with others begins with the relationship you have with yourself.
They struggle because people don't understand themselves. Technique can't fix what awareness hasn't reached yet.
Old wounds shape present-day reactions, and we blame our partners for experiences that began long before the relationship.
Growth happens when we stop focusing exclusively on what our partner is doing and begin examining our own contribution to the dynamic.
"We came in barely speaking. By week four we had language for things we'd never been able to name in twelve years together."
"When I could finally see my part, the fight I'd been having for years simply stopped being available."
"The repair framework alone was worth the tuition. I've used it in my marriage, with my teenager, and with my mother."
